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Dad wants to have sex with me?

my dad mentioned how his family member (women) always bragged about having sex with some guy who had a one foot penis. and then he got out the tape measure and showed me one foot and asked me if it was big. he then said he saw something on tv about how women only have 6-8 inch vaginas, so one foot is too much. he also said how he saw on tv a study that women who swallow a man's semen are less likely to have breast cancer. and that women who want to have nice wrinkle free skin should put semen on their face. he asked me if i wanted to research it on the internet. i said no. my dad has also been giving me a bunch of hugs lately like 5 a day. and idk what to do :'( i just want your perspective on whether or not i am blowing things out of porportion or what i should do. please :'( i'm 20 years old btw


like a year ago he also mentioned how i should be touching my boobs to make sure i don't have a lump- breast cancer..

Comments

1. You need to move out as soon as possible.

2. Just tell him ur a squirrle he will understand / sadly

3. Aw girl he is sexually abusing -_- . That's inappropriate . Report him yoo.

4. That is very weird I don't think your blowing things out of proportion.

5. Put a stop to it girl. you cant suffer lonely like this. Tell him that you dont like this subject and would not want to talk about it. Tell him i dont want to search the net for some sily topics and im happy with the knowledge i have. Thanks though for your help. may be this will keep him in place. if he still insisting u have to ask for Help from Elders or YOO

6. Hard to say, I think it's slightly odd about him talking about sex like that with his daughter. I would just wait for him to bring it up again and say 'dad please I don't want to hear it!' In a jokey but serious way

7. Is your dad married or divorced? Maybe he's desperate and maybe he's just trying to be a perv or funny. Sit down and talk to him about this or if you have a female member that you're close to , talk to them about it first & ask what should you do. I never heard of someones father trying to do such a thing to their grown daughter. I'm praying for you and your father but til then see a counsellor or a trusted family member. Hope things get better.

My Dad Watches Me at Night

From a 15 year old in the U.S.: During my sleep, sometimes my hand is inside in my shorts. Or sometimes inside my underwear unconsciously. I am not sure how this started. Anyways, I was sleeping and felt like someone was watching me. So, I opened my eyes a little and saw my dad, just standing there. Watching me. I immediately moved my hand away and exhaled like as if I was still sleeping. And the worst part was that I wasn’t covered in my blanket. I quickly grabbed my blanket and just waited for him to leave.

Just thinking about this makes me wonder if he is physically attracted to me because sometimes at night when I wear my t-shirt, I don’t wear a bra underneath because it’s comfortable without it, but he just stares and when he does I move out of the, quickly as I can and go to my room. Now, at nights, I sleep with a bra because I feel very uncomfortable.

I was reading a story about a woman’s father who would look at her through a hole that he would find or he would make himself one, that lead to her room when she changed, or in the bathroom, etc. And she would consider that as sexual abuse, even though he had never laid a finger on her.

I am not sure if I would consider this as sexual abuse, but I feel somehow offended and probably like…”Sexually abused” even though he had never laid a finger on me or anything like that. (As far as I know..)

I now understand how women feel when they don’t tell on their parents with this type of problem. I used to think that women who didn’t tell on their parents, should have told them. Like I would’ve been straight up about it.
But you don’t want to ruin your family.

You don’t want to consider your (in this situation) father some type of pervert or anything like that because he was there in your whole life and never once, have you thought about them doing these type of things.

I don’t think I will ever tell my mom. I don’t want to cause my family to have problems.

So I decided to just talk about it here because it’s the only way I can let out my problems. I’m too scared to talk about this to my friends. And at the same time it’s embarrassing.

A: It’s challenging for many men to deal with their daughter’s emergence into adulthood. The difference between a dad who is working through his feelings of attraction and a dad who is an abuser is all about boundaries. Without knowing more about your family dynamics, I can’t tell what’s happening in your case. Has he crossed the line too far? Or is it possible you are too sensitive to the possibility?

I do understand your concerns. But if you don’t resolve this, you are going to be uncomfortable in your own home until you are old enough to leave. Even then, you will have a very difficult time being close to your family. For those reasons, I think it is important for you to confide in your mom to let her know how uncomfortable you are with your dad and then to have a frank three way conversation that includes all of you. You are all setting the terms for the rest of your teen years.

Before I get a dozen letters expressing concern that I’m defending an abuser: I’m doing no such thing. I’m allowing for the possibility for misunderstandings and the very normal awkwardness that happens between dads and daughters and mothers and sons that occurs during adolescence. A short letter doesn’t provide enough information on which to make a judgment.

I wish you well.
Dr. Marie

Would you allow your girlfriend to wear revealing clothes in public places ?

Girls, does your boyfriend allow you to wear revealing clothes in public places ?

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Five Reasons Why You Should Not Beat Your Girlfriend Or Wife

1. It makes her less attractive.
If you’re like most men, you’re with your girl
because you think she’s hot . Uppercuts, drop
kicks and karate chops leave behind cuts,
welts and the occasional broken bone. Unless
you find black eyes and smashed teeth sexy,
you’ll have difficulty getting an Attention after
you’ve given your girl a good working over.
Hypothetical reversal: If you have a spare
phone book, you can place it over her stomach
so your fists don’t leave any marks. But who
has a phone book these days?
2. It keeps her from performing her
womanly duties.
In order for your girl to cook, clean and please
you sexually , she needs to be in top physical
condition. If you injure her while slapping her
around, she won’t be able to serve you as
well. For example, it’s difficult for a girl to
make you a sandwich when her arm is in a
sling, or for her to go down on you with a
broken jaw. By sending her to the hospital
every time she folds your underwear the
wrong way, you make it more difficult for her
to get it right in the future.
Hypothetical reversal: If you have a large joystick,
dislocating your girl’s jaw might lead to a
more pleasurable Mouth Gig.
3. It’s time-consuming.
Because men are physically stronger on
average than women, virtually every man has
the ability to beat the stuffing out of his girl if
he wants. Even still, disciplining a girl
takes effort. Depending on how much your girl
has irritated you, you may have to spend hours
chasing her around the house with a belt.
That’s time you could be using to do
something more productive, like playing video
games or alphabetizing your Joni Mitchell
albums.
Hypothetical reversal: Your life is so dull that
smacking your girl around is the highlight of
your day.
4. You can hurt yourself while beating
her.
While physically assaulting a girl is something
almost every man can do, you run the risk of
injuring yourself in the process. She may be a
frail little female, but her bones are still hard
and her nails are still sharp. You also might
accidentally get some of her blood on your
nice clothes.
Hypothetical reversal: Beat your girlfriend in the
Unclad.
5. You might go to prison.
If you’re caught beating your girl, you can be
arrested and thrown in prison for years. This
will seriously impede your ability to make
money, drink quality craft brews, and hook up
with sluts. Additionally, other prisoners might
decide to relieve their sexual tension by using
your rectum as a Fleshlight. Many states have
“must-arrest” laws when it comes to domestic
violence calls, meaning that it’s almost certain
that you will be hauled away.
Hypothetical reversal: If your girl loves you
enough, she might drop the charges.
As much as some girls really deserve a slap
across the face, giving her a shiner is not a
good idea. I hope this article helped explain
why inflicting short-term pain on your girl may
result in long-term pain for you . So long as you
don’t confuse punching and kicking with
spanking your girlfriend to discipline her and
show her her place, you’ll be fine.

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How To Tell If Your Partner Is A Gold Digger

Most men often worry that their partners are just with them for material gain, and this is not so far-fetched considering that a lot of women have the reputation of going after men with means.

Although there is nothing wrong with having some kind of standards when it comes to choosing a mate, but if the person is with you solely because of what you have, then this can pose a lot of problems. Everyone deserves to be with someone who loves them and wants them for who they are.

So, can you spot the frauds? See below some simple ways to find out if she is with you just for what you can offer her.

1. She Only Calls When She Needs Something: A woman in love always wants to be around her man and speak to him as often as possible. But if she only pays you attention or hang out with you when she needs something or when she is promised something in return, then perhaps she does not truly care for you.
2. She Is Not Interested In Getting To Know You: Dating someone is giving you both an opportunity to get to know each other. A woman, who is not interested in getting to know you deeply, wanting to know your likes/dislikes, what you are pa$$ionate about, is obviously hoping for some kind of payment for her time.
3. Does Not Remember Details About You: Why bother memorising things someone tells you if you really do not care. If your woman keeps forgetting little bit of details about your life, like your occupation, where you are from, etc, it means she does not consider all these information worth storing. She might just be with you for some other reasons.
4. Acts Up When She Does Not Get What She Wants: One good way to make sure you are not being used is to try to deny a few requests from your partner every now and then. If you do this and she acts up, or reacts horribly, then she has shown you where her pa$$ion lies. A woman, who loves you would understand why you might not be able to provide for her at particular times.
5. Makes No Sacrifices: If you notice that your woman has actually never done anything simply to make you happy, then she is obviously in the relationship for some other kind of gain.
6. Avoids Friends and Family: A lot of gold diggers usually avoid spending time with your friends and family since they do not consider impressing them a priority. Also, she could be worried that someone from your family or one of your friends might recognise her for what she is.

10 types of MEN most likely to cheat on you

Are you having bad luck with men? 

Do you have trust issues?

Read the following article about the types of men most likely to cheat. Although this is not an exact science it may help you to spot the warning signs or just to feel a little more confident. We must make it clear, the statistics used to calculate the signs are not exact, but it is an interesting read!

1.Avoid men age ending with 9

Yes believe it or not men ending with an age numbered 9 like 19,29,39,49 and so on have been recorded to cheat on their partners as they feel they won't have to settle down until a solid figure. Infact its been recorded 950,000 men ending with 9 in their age where signed up to a dating affair site! 

2.Tall guys

This seems like complete tosh to me but apparently its recorded dudes over 5'10 are also the biggest user of these affair websites. Most men documented at marriage counselling sessions are tall... looks like you all have to settle for a shorty!

3. ROCK N'ROLL fans

41% of cheaters prefer rock music! This actually isn't that surprising as most rock n'roll fans are 'live for the moment' types of people...

4. I.T. NERDS

Don't be fooled by the hoodies, specs and "Ill restore your iPhone darling". These guys are normally addicted to porn in their spare time, which leads them to want something else in their heart..

5. The French

According to a luxury sex toy brand 70% of french males admit to cheating on a partner in the past or on their current partner! It can't all be wine and chess under the eiffel tower...

6. Guys named Wayne!

Stay away from any one named Wayne! I'm really sorry if you're with someone named Wayne and your friend has tagged you in this but... statistics say:

"That women ranked Wayne as the least trustworthy name for love". 

7. Twitter addicts

The more your man is tweeting, the higher the chance of it causing conflict in your relationship. 

8. Guys with young friends

Most men cheat on their partners with someone younger than them, so if your guy has young friends then they know a bunch of young hotties... oh dear.

9.Over protective guy

The guy who always tells you were to be or when to be there,  this guy is probably making sure you avoid anyone else he may have slept with... 

10. Hair bun dudes

Recent figures show that on affair websites the majority of men sport this cut.

10 Signs He’s Faking Love Just to Sleep with You

Sometimes, a guy would do just about anything to get into your pants. So how can you tell if he’s being real or he just wants to sleep with you?

Not all that glitters is gold. There are times when you think you’ve found the real deal, when in fact, you’re faced with a fake. Whether it’s a fake Fendi, a fake friend or a fake orgasm, the hype can sometimes make you want to believe that it’s the real thing.

Sadly, some men have ways of faking their devotion to you, but only for the sole purpose of getting into your pants. A lot of women can fall for the sweet words, the little gifts and the promises of forever, only to see him scurrying away the moment she sleeps with him. [Read: 9 quick ways to know if your crush isn’t into you]

How to know if he’s faking love to have sex with you

We’re not here to make you lose faith in men. But we can’t just sit back and watch as women are manipulated, tricked and lied to by men who just want to get some action. Below are some ways to spot a guy that only wants to hit it and quit it.

#1 He never takes you out on a real date. One thing a guy that is serious about you does is take you out on dates. Real dates. If you’re currently talking to a guy or hooking up with a guy who never once has asked you out on a real date, this is a huge red flag. Asking you to meet up for drinks at 9pm doesn’t count as a date.

When a guy really likes you, he wants you to know, and he wants to spoil you and show you off. If he’s not taking you to dinner, or lunch, not even once, you might want to reconsider wasting any more of your time with him.

#2 He never sleeps over or lets you stay over. If you’ve ever seen the movie Bridesmaids, then you are familiar with the scene when Kristin Wiig’s character and John Hamm’s character have just hooked up, and she wakes up the next morning realizing it’s the first time he’s let her stay the night, only for him to tell her he didn’t mean for her to and that he wants her to leave, because he has a busy day. If the guy you’re talking to is like this, then he’s not serious about you. [Read: 11 clear signs you shouldn’t trust the guy you’re dating]

#3 He never communicates with you during the day. When you’re in a healthy relationship and the guy you’re dating actually cares about you, then he will care enough to communicate with you and see what you’re doing, during the day and at night. I don’t mean he needs to check in with you or you with him 24/7, but he should be doing something as simple as sending you a text or calling you on your lunch break, just to let you know he cares.

If you’re currently hooking up with a guy or talking to a guy who never once actually calls you or checks in with you during the day, and the only time you hear from him is usually on the weekend or late at night, then the reality is he’s not serious about you, but he does enjoy having sex with you.

#4 He’s only a night caller. If the guy you’re seeing only calls you late at night, and never during the day. And when he does call, it always involves him wanting you to come over, he’s not actually in it for love. He doesn’t actually want to be with you, unless it’s under the sheets. If you want to be a hookup, then fine, keep seeing him after dark. But if you want real relationships, real love, and real feelings in your life, it’s time you give him back to the wolves.

#5 He never introduces you. A guy who really wants to be with you will be proud of you, take you on dates, and will want to introduce you to his family and friends. When a guy really likes you, he’ll make it a point to introduce you to anyone you guys might run into when you’re out together. If you’re always referred to as “just a friend,” or you never even meet anyone he knows, then you’re just a hookup he’d rather keep in the dark.

#6 He’s uninterested in your family or friends. If the guy you’re currently spending time with doesn’t care to hear anything about your family, your friends, or the story about your family dog, it’s safe to say he only cares about hooking up with you.

#7 He always wants to just hook up. If and when you do hang out with your guy, and the only thing he ever wants to do is hook up, then you should probably realize this is a huge red flag. It’s great to hook up and be romantic with someone you like, but if your guy only wants to hook up with you and never do anything else, ever, it’s time to accept the fact he’s just not that into you at all. If the only thing your guy ever mentions involves you two, naked and getting it on, it’s time you get loose of the loser!

#8 Alcohol is always involved. As I’ve said before, if the guy you’re seeing invites you to meet up for drinks and never actually takes you out on a real date, then he’s not interested in being anything other than f*ck buddies. If the only times he actually does ask you to hang out in a public setting involves meeting up at a bar, or anything involving alcohol, then once again, realize these red flags and take them for what they are: signs he isn’t interested in you other than hooking up. [Read: 10 sneaky ways guys try to get into your pants]

#9 You always initiate. There is nothing sexy about desperation. I understand that we all want love and to be loved in return. Unfortunately, one way you will never get what you actually want is if you’re desperate. If you are constantly the one asking to hang out, or initiating hanging out by dangling having sex, then of course he’ll want to hang out with you, because you’re more enjoyable for him to get off to than his right hand.

If you are always the one asking to hang out, you look desperate, and of course, he considers you as an easy lay since when you do hang out, you always have sex. If he’s never the one calling up and asking you to hang out, stop being so desperate and wasting your time on this guy. He’s not worth it. [Read: How to meet The One without appearing desperate]

#10 He doesn’t want you to be friends on social media. In today’s society, what people see on social media are often fairly accurate representations of who they are in real life. And if the guy insists on not being friends on social media, then it’s a pretty blunt way of saying he doesn’t really want you in his life… at least as far as other people know.

Most of the time, we already know the answers to our questions, especially when it comes to relationships and doubts. We tend to ignore what we already know, seeking answers to our questions elsewhere, in hopes that maybe we’ll get a different answer, or hear what we want to hear, instead of what we need to hear.

The reality is that no matter how many times you ask yourself the same question, or how many people you seek advice from; the answer will usually be the same, always. If you have doubts about the guy you’re currently seeing, and thinking he might not be into you as much as you are into him, you’re probably right.

Don’t be the kind of woman who mistakes sex and intimacy for love. Men can fake it just as well as a woman can fake an orgasm. If you have doubts about whether the guy you’re seeing is really into you, check for these telltale signs.

10 Online Posts that Will Turn Off Potential Partners

If your appeal were based on your online presence, are you a keeper or a goner? Here’s how you can filter your posts to be more appealing online.

Life is quite simple these days. Don’t know where to find Murakami’s latest book? Google it.  You need to check which hotel to stay at and don’t know where? Just ask Google. You want to know if the person you’re crushing on is single? Google them.

You’d be surprised at the amount of information the internet has. Stalking is as easy as counting from one to three. You can even find out where they live, what their favorite food is, where they hang out. It doesn’t even matter if their social media profiles are “private,” the internet will always give you something. And if you have your game face on and are on the prowl for information, you will find what you are looking for, no matter how they try to hide it.

What not to post online

On the flip side, someone who might be interested in you only needs a browsing device and an internet connection to know more about you. Would they like what they see? If you’ve got too many of the following posts, you’ll probably just scare them off.

#1 YOLO moment number one: wasted nights. You’ve had too much to drink? Start hiding while you still can. You might be out with your friends, but in moments where everyone is more than tipsy, you can be assured that someone will take that photo somewhere. And when you get sober the following day, you won’t even remember anything.

But don’t fret. Everyone has a wasted photo. The only difference between you and that someone is their privacy. It’s a hundred times worse if you weren’t even the one who posted it! Be sure that whenever a photo of you surfaces and it shows how wild you can be when you get drunk, remove it. Or better yet, try to keep it classy, no matter how much you’ve had to drink.

#2 R. E. S. P. E. C. T. You definitely don’t want posts showing you dissing anything out of disrespect. This modern age of globalization is all about the whole world becoming one. Sure, you’re definitely entitled to your own opinion. But make sure that your opinion doesn’t offend anybody else.

#3 The futility of online fighting. Online fighting results in what? How do you think your potential lover would feel is they see you in a heated argument over something as trivial as a seemingly harmless tweet? If you are already fighting with people you don’t know over something petty, what more would you do if you’re already in a relationship with someone who might be into you? Too much negativity can kill anyone’s vibe, that’s for sure.

#4 “Please take me away.” Take you where? Do you want to go away on a vacation? Or are you saying that you want to take your life? Oe wait, are you just fishing for pity?

These cryptic depression posts online are better if you write them down in your private journal, not for the whole world to see. If you want your potential lover to not see you as someone who has a regularly scheduled mental breakdown just because you don’t know what to wear or which car you want to drive, then keep your cryptic depression posts to yourself.

#5 Look! I’m getting my tooth extracted! And above this caption is a photo of your oral cavity, bloody and all. Please. Nobody wants to see your anatomical insides. Nobody wants to see any disgusting injury photos. If you want pity for what’s happening to you, you can get it without showing anything.

Not everything should be shared online. Wouldn’t it be better for your potential partner to get acquainted with your oral cavity when he or she leans in for a kiss?

#6 The past is clearly interloping with the present. If people will look at your social media profile and they can’t tell whether you are still in a relationship or not, then perhaps it’s time you take a look at the profile yourself. You still post “throwback” pictures of you and your ex. You still recognize the presence of your ex in your life and tag them in all your updates, even though they’re clearly ignoring you now.

Before you can enter a new relationship, you have to move on. You also need to realize that you’re missing out a lot. Posting pictures of the past with your ex doesn’t look good, especially if a potential partner is checking you out.

#7 The selfie overload. It’s great that you’re appreciating the way you look. What’s not great is flooding your friends’ newsfeed with your selfies. Nothing says narcissism like a selfie every half hour. Your potential partner might appreciate the first couple of selfies on your profile. But if that’s the only thing you’ve got on your profile, then you’ll start to look like you have nothing more substantial to post. [Read:16 signs you’re being an attention whore]

#8 Serious work rant. Unless you are your own boss, for your own sake, let’s hope that your potential partner doesn’t see how you backstab and complain about work on social media. It’s bad enough that you have work qualms that you don’t professionally deal with at work. Just imagine what a bad impression that would leave!

If you don’t like your job, curb the urge to post a long rant and just quit your miserable job! There’s no need to involve other people in your negativity.

#9 The humble brag. Arrogance isn’t sexy. What’s worse than arrogance is arrogance hidden behind a layer of fake modesty. For instance, you might rant and rave about the fact that your Louboutin pumps don’t perfectly match your Tiffany blue cocktail dress, and you just HAD to settle for your Jimmy Choo flats instead. Oh, boo hoo.

At least arrogance doesn’t urge people to respond. With the humble brag, your potential partner might just be confused about whether to try and console you or congratulate you on how much money you spend on designer footwear.

#10 A photo of you with tears in your eyes. When people are genuinely sad, you’d think they won’t have time to snap a photo of that lone tear making its way down their cheek, right? A photo of you crying only makes you look like an attention whore who’s looking for some pity. It’s not a sexy look, and it’s not something your potential partner will find appealing.

Anything that you post online is a gateway for others to know more about you. So the next time you’re thinking of posting something, think of how someone you like might respond. One wrong post might just spell the end of a relationship that could have been.

Relationship: Never Lie To Anyone About These 9 Simple Things

Everyone wants to leave an amazing first impression and most people tend to lie in order to impress the person they are in a conversation with. However, there are some things you have to be upfront about if you have any intention on building a relationship with the person you are trying to impress.
A relationship foundation based on simple lies will always crumble and leave you feeling horrible at the end of the day.

Interestingly, I would say guys are usually more guilty of most of these points below.

1. Age: It’s too difficult to keep track. And eventually the truth comes out.
2. Your Job: Not your dream job. Not the one you just applied for. The one that is currently sending you a paycheck.
3. Your True Relationship Status: Divorce means papers are signed. It doesn’t mean we are living together but have been talking about separating.
4. Height: Unless you plan on dating him via the Internet forever, don’t bother to lie about this one, especially if you prefer heels to flats.
5. Interests: Please don’t pretend you are okay camping when in reality your idea of roughing it is the Ritz-Carlton.
6. Whether Or Not You Smoke: Unless you have been wearing the patch for two years, please don’t pretend you don’t smoke. Lying about it is more of a turnoff for nonsmokers than doing it.
7. Whether You Have Roommates: I know things can be tough financially, but you need to ’fess up to this one. He will know in time if it’s a one-way street to his house only.
8. What You Are Looking For: If you are looking to date, don’t tell him you would be fine with a casual fling. It’s not him who will suffer in this; it’s you. Focus on what you want — don’t conform constantly in order to try and get it.
9. Pets: He could have allergies.